Thats how I feel today anyhow. I’m sure part of it is the fact that i’m bipolar so my moods swings pretty rapidly and sometimes i’m on top of the world other times i’m not. Yesterday I was feeling great.. Today not so great. Today kinda discouraged. Why? All because of stupid dh.. I don’t know why I let him get to me. I made the mistake of telling him yesterday that I had lost 10 lbs. He says,”good” so matter of factly I wanted to hit him. What i’d like to do is kick his ass and tell him its f*$king great! I’d like to tell him to get off his ass and try to lose some of the weight he is steadily gaining but its his life and his body and he wont listen to me. Even though he went up a pants size and he can’t button (can barely button if he doesnt breathe) his pants. He still says he hasnt gained weight. He is just bloated.. OH FREAKING PLEASE!!!!!!
You aren’t just bloated! You have gained weight and you are steadily pouring it on. Look at all the crap he eats. I fix dinner he eats it then eats cereal or some stupid snack cake afterwards. I dont even know where he gets the junk from he eats. You should see what he eats for lunch. And he has the nerve to talk to me about going to see a weight loss dr.. I’m doing this the right way!!!!!!!!! I’m busting my ass and watching what I eat. I’m not watching the fork to my mouth..
ANYWAY today i’m just angry. Because after all this he has the nerve to say good. Like I need to lose the weight.. Yes I need to lose the weight but a supportive,”Thats great” “Way to go” would have been nice. I’m not surprised though. I”m just pissed off.. Because after telling me good he has the nerve to say my boobs are going away.. WHO CARES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t!
Tosha
pantrypuff said,
June 15, 2008 @ 1:11 am
Because after all this he has the nerve to say good. Like I need to lose the weight
That’s totally how I would have interpreted it. Not that he necessarily meant it that way, but that’s how I would have seen it and been very pissed.
Men and their boob fixation. I’ve nurses two babies and let me tell you, I’ll never see them as a sexy asset ever again. Mostly because they pretty much hang to my toes.
Mel said,
June 16, 2008 @ 11:45 pm
Men can be… insensitiv eto say the least. My hubby, while he’s a great guy, has no sensitivity- at all.
But at the same time, he can drop 10 pounds in 2 weeks, while it might take me 6 weeks to do the same— and I’m exercising and watching calories, etc, etc!!
Take out the anger on a punching bag, or weeds outside– I love it when I’m angry– such pent up frustration, and I can get it out of my system– makes for AWESOME workouts!
Janet said,
June 17, 2008 @ 3:56 am
Men aren’t great with the words, eh? A big congrats to you on the hard work of 10 pounds! I just passed that mark, too. I don’t think I even told my dh. lol.
Dianne said,
June 17, 2008 @ 5:55 am
It sucks for people like us (hard time with losing & people don’t know the pain it is to lose sometimes).All we want is to be recognized for the accomplishment….I hear ya girl!
Enna said,
June 24, 2008 @ 8:30 am
WHAT THE HELL IS WITH MEN EATING CEREAL AFTER DINNER?
I thought only mine did that, but you are the third person THIS WEEK to confirm that! CONGRATS ON THE TEN!
Heather C. said,
August 4, 2008 @ 9:10 am
The frustration of working on weight loss and to have minimalized is definitely infuriating. BUt then there is the revenge of having a blog for venting…. Good for you for sticking to it!